You wake at 3 a.m. soaked, again. You lose a word mid-sentence. Sex has started to hurt and your period arrives when it likes. Each thing on its own sounds small, and you may already have been told it is stress, or age, or just life.
Put together, they often point to one thing: falling estrogen. Estrogen works on the brain’s temperature control, the vaginal and bladder lining, bone, skin and sleep, so when it drops the signs show up in places that do not look connected.
Most of the time the cause is perimenopause, the years of change before periods stop. But estrogen can also fall at 25 or 35, for reasons that need a different conversation. This guide walks through the signs, the causes at each life stage and when a test actually helps.
Pro tip before any appointment, write down your symptoms and your last six periods on one page. A pattern on paper is hard to wave away.
This article is general information, not medical advice. Decisions about tests, hormones or contraception belong with a licensed clinician who knows your history.
